Good bye 2016
Today, 31st Dec, is the last day of 2016.
How has it been for you since Jan?
This 2016 had taken away a lot of great artists that we can ever imagine. Let’s not go through who they are because you can just Google yourself.
This does not end even at the last few days of 2016.
It seems like the other side of the world is getting crowded.
So how about you all?
Has it been well for you since the start of the year?
Everyone has it up and down in life.
So long we keep on moving on and stay positive, we will always find a way to solve the problem.
2016 test, has it been good?
I take this year as a test for me to try out as many things as possible because I found the joy and I do not want to regret it.
Whether the job is going to be big or small, I will hold the fort until I decided to give up.
There are only 3 things that I will never give up and I still trying my best to fight with it.
They are music, photo and trading.
After years of practising and understand inside out, I finally know how I should move ahead to be better.
Everything is all about focus and keeps practising.
If either one of your choices does not allow you to earn the money, just focus that bring in the money and keep on doing the other during your free time.
It is not difficult to understand that.
It is just hard to stay concentrated.
You have your dream
If you have a dream to pursue, why hold back and not do it?
Many thoughts start coming in your mind and there will be a lot of negative assumption pointing at you.
You must be brave and do it.
Even if it fail, always have a backup plan.
This can keep it going on until the day you decided to give up unless this word does not appear in your mind.
If this is the chance for you to be what you want, do it now in the year of 2017.
Plan everything first.
What I learn from 2016
I learn a lot from 2016, especially on my three things I had mentioned, but one of them that I wanted to bring it up is trading.
Trading can be hard and harsh.
Once you had been beaten by the psychology trade, it will take you very long to stand up once again.
But I am glad that I found my mentor to help me out throughout the years and I started to see things on my own and be slightly better than before.
I will definitely share more once I am profitable.
Since I am on the topic of 2016, I would like to talk about 2017.
I will produce more dance music, gain fame from photography and do well in trading.
I believe I can do it, it just takes times.
Have a good last day of 2016 and may 2017 shining on everyone.
Life without the internet is not like the end of the world.
We can call our friend and head out together, just like in the past.
Being back to dino world is not a bad thing at all. It only teaches us one thing to remember, be glad what you have.
Last week, Singapore had experienced a terrible internet shut down by the biggest Telco. Alright, it is mainly the internet that is affected, so on the good side, we still can communicate and check out information via 3G and 4G.
I saw a lot of people complaining on the Facebook as if their life is ruin!
I shall be fair.
I pity those who need the internet for business, but not those who need it for social media feed, gaming and surfing.
Why not everyone just leaves their computer aside and head down to town or park to meet up with friends? How long have that been?
For those who do not know and never had this feeling before, this is a good experience.
We, the generation of the 80s – 90s do not have the damn unlimited internet data you are using now.
There is a cap of data we can use per month and the charges are not cheap!
When the data max out, we chose to shut down the computer and contact each other via SMS or phone call.
For those who are richer, they have the luxury of owning the unlimited data per month.
Will no internet kill you?
No! Of course not!
Didn’t we sleep, eat or exercising without the usage of internet? Get used to it and stop been a walking head down walkers.
We can compensate the loss of usage today.
We must live the day happily and stop being a whiner who kept on complaining. It will not help and it will never solve the damn problem because there is nothing you can do to help revive the connection.
However, it is a good lesson for all.
Time to learn the life without the internet.
Get buddies around for a meetup, doing exercising and explore around. Do not just sit in front of the computer for gaming and social media feed. For those in business, it is tough. But life goes on, wait for connection and apologize, or seek help with temporary internet solution (Hi Card).
Maybe competitors should start thinking of this solution if either one faced the same situation again.
It is lucky that only one telco is affected and not the entire island.
Having some thought in mind and wanted to earn more money?
You sit down in front of the computer and start your Google search: How to make more money in short time.
I will confirm that there are so many links that you are going bewitched by it!
Hey hey…there will be information like:”Wow, I earn $X in a week! I cannot believe it!”
“Wow, I earn $X in a week! I cannot believe it!”
“This product make me earn so well that I can work from home every day”
“Earn $1000 in a day!”
The promising that you cannot blame
Yeah yeah… all these promising stuff is just going to start leeching you sooner or later. Good or bad, you pick your own choice.
You have no idea how it is going to work, you find the course is affordable that you quickly jump into it and realised that you have to keep on paying until you stop or rather pay for a year.
SO much of tactic that you can spend before you can start earning! Right right, there are people will start telling you… if you do not invest in yourself, will you learn?
You got so messed up because you thought you can earn but realising that all these are ‘fake’ business they wanted it from you!
There are no promises also, so whether you can make it or not, that is another story to say.
Truthfully speaking, there are people really earn from their blog and selling of stuff. Not because they have unique things to sell, but they enter the market where everyone is looking at it.
You cannot blame internet marketing gurus who say they can help you! Only if you know what to sell in the first place. Best is you bring in people to join the course and then there are incentives! Wow.. what a deal! Why not? Psst… check your ROI (Return on investment), okay?
Hard work will pay off
Everything will work if you are diligent.
I am not saying that ALL of them will never work. but you just need to spend a time to make it work.
Nothing is impossible in this world.
But do not get blind by the get rich fast or earn $XXXX in a day type of sentences.
Wake up wake up
Other than internet marketing and MLM type of special advertising… There is another ‘get rich fast’ that will definitely lure people in.
It is investing in stock or forex.
C’mom, if you do not know any shit about that, I suggest you stay out or go find a proper website with better people who are willing to guide you!
DO not jump in because you want to get rich fast.
If you really think you can do wonders from $1000 to $1,000,000 in short notice? Dream on and hug your beer to sleep.
While investing is fun if you are really a chart person, do not get blind by some guru who says their method really works.
Yes yes, they are all out to earn MORE money, the more the merrier and I did not say they are lousy. Who will not want money when they need lesson badly?
At least find someone who is reliable with good reviews.
Do not spend money on robot if you know nuts. Chances of losing all your money are very high. Unless the robot is proven with records.
And please, for god sake, do not blame on those mentors who cause you to lose money. They too will lose money in the market, they are not god that will earn a profit every day. Someone have to lose.
Find the right mentor
If you are able to find a mentor who willing to teach you, at no cost… WOW! Congrats!
I am one of those who received that no cost lesson! I had lost a lot in market and paid to one ‘guru’ mentor because I am hunger for getting rich.
If you do not believe me after saying so much, by all means and try it.
That is the kind of experience not many want to go through it, but I will assure you to wake up your idea after you been to the dump shit.
I am not selling anything to you even though I wish to. But this is just a kind reminder that you should not be blind, okay?
Move away from people who often give you negativity in life and career.
They are nothing but a group of people who love to see someone drop to the world of shit, suffering and admit that they are right and wise. That way will make them happier.
Even though some of them are your family or close friend, always maintain yourself to stand firm because no one should violate your mind.
Negativity creates a mess
It is sad and disappointing when you realised that your family member often gives you negative element.
The worst is when the parent did not encourage their children well enough.
When kids are doing badly in sport or education, as a parent point of view, it is important to encourage them rather than passing them remarks like:
“I knew you cannot do it.”
“Why try so hard to suffer?”
“You shouldn’t be spending too much on gaming or watching TV!”
“You are simply useless!”
“You are totally wasting my time and energy to get you study well”
“You are making my money gone down to drain!”
How many of you as a parent said that before? There can be worst, of course.
Do you think by pouring such kind of sentences to kids are healthy for them?
You should be glad that if you child is strong minded and will not think of any other thing.
Let this shall not be another case where the child thought of ending their lives.
Instead, you as a kid, should try and find someone to talk with.
Any problem can be solved.
Choosing the shortcut is not the way to answer it.
Please remember, while you get away from this, what about the parents? And the parents, it is very important for you to take a second look at your kids. No one should come under that kind of stress.
Stop the negativity and encourage
That is how bad the negativity will cause if all of the people here does not know when to stop it!
It only makes everyone tired because it is not relevant at all.
Why does some people success?
It is all because they are very focus, having a strong will and also, having a group of family and friend who keep on encouraging each other.
Encouraging is very important.
Without that, it is as good as an egg without any yolk in it. Meaningless, right?
Encourage your family and friend instead of pouring cold water or negativity to others.
Rather have more support than having people walk away from you.
This is your choice, pick it yourself.
No one wants to live unhappily.
No one will bother how much you have hatred on the party.
They will not know why you have hatred, but all I can say is you are just wasting your time and effort whom the other party have no time for you.
Get up with positive attitude and share with all the others!
So what if you have vast experience.
People will still look at you as if you do not have the ability and like to talk you down like you just started out the day before.
Not showing out does not mean you are stupid or totally inexperienced.
It meant that you are absorbing everything you see, feel and touch of what had just happened before.
Just little by little will form a huge mountain.
No one will know how much experience you had before if you do not want to show.
There is no wrong doing that because you are just simply cannot bother who wanted to stand above you.
While people may think they are trying to teach you with a valid reason, but they have no idea that they are talking down to you.
It makes you like a pure fool person who does not know what is going on.
It is hurting, definitely. And it is highly irritating and restless!
Why do people love to do that?
It is not because they want to teach or think you require a lot of training. It is just that they want to be on top of the world.
Showing that they are the person others should approach to them.
They are the type who want to be a leader.
Do you feel like having a head on with this people?
It totally wastes your damn time fixing those when you know you can deal with more important things.
You do not gain anything from that at all. It only causes you more emotionally stress and tired out of everything because it always begins a conversation and then into a big argument,
NO one is right or wrong.
It is just the individual character that reacts this way.
It is important to work the way you think is right.
While advises are good to listen, it does not means you must follow them, even though it may cause some problem in future.
It is not that you do not care.
It only means you are standing firm on your belief.
Do not try to betray yourself just to follow suit because not everyone hand is strong enough to hold when you drop down.
For past few days, I had been thinking whether I should continue this blog.
And I made up my mind.
The answer is yes.
I would like to transform the way this blog is going to be.
It will be more of me instead of acting out as if I am one of those motivator speakers. Sorry, I am not, even though I wish I can.
It is hard to become one when you cannot act like one.
I am not going to do and I want to be as natural as possible.
NO, I am not saying I am not fit to be one, but prefer a person who wants to be your friend instead.
I would like to share something in our life, karma, and return of merits.
This is not going to be a religious topic (though I might share a bit here and there), but it will be more personal touch.
I love listen to people, sharing their life story. If there is something I can do to help, I would love to – but within my own means.
So, there it is.
Check me out often and it will be great!
Have a good day ahead.