Most of us love to look for an opportunity to give ourselves a better life. We ask around friends who might give us that, but they often rejected by saying things like” Nah.. you cannot do this or do that” “You do not have the experience to do that”.
It is tiring to hear that because they also do not have the experience from the start.
Everyone need to practise and learn because they have no prior experience in working life as there are a lot of things that cannot be taught in the school.
If no one is willing to give you an opportunity, there will be no one working in the certain sector.
I always believe in learning through experience. Do you?
You are looking for work and most of your friend rejected helping you because they wanted to be better than you in many folds although they may not know it by themselves. Because those benefits are just too overwhelming and by their action, they prefer to keep it for themselves.
If a person is willing to share, they will do a recommendation few months after in the workplace. If not, please do not waste your time because your friend will be walking away from you, or rather, it is fated that you cannot work in that industry.
Some people love to stand high and feel on top of the world because they like it a lot. But they guard themselves away by recommending friends in. Although there is no obligation to help, but a person nature can be seen clearly.
Do not pin high hope because it hurts badly.
When people are not willing to give you an opportunity, it does not means that you should the same thing back to others. Why follow others and betray your kindness in heart. What comes around, goes around.
They may be up there looking down on you, but there will be a day they look up upon you.
The more you help, the better you are.
Things do not change immediately but it takes times.
Everything is about patience and discipline. Good things will accumulate and it will slowly give you tonnes of good opportunity in future.
It will take a while to understand this knowledge when you are not really that clear. By having your mind at ease, you will find an answer to what had happened to you before.
Everyone deserve an opportunity unless they decided to give up on themselves.
When things are not getting your way, you love to make a fuss that things are JUST not going your way.
How much you tried, the result will not appear and you started to question yourself with a lot of why in your mind.
That results in you to turn a little crazy because you started talking to yourself and keep on blaming and hitting yourself when things are just not right.
This type of psychology burden is not abnormal at all. Because we cannot control our mind well enough to let it control us.
In the other word, this is call stress.
We started imagining things that did not happen at all and start assuming this and that.
Family members started having a fear of you because you are not in your usual you.
The stress keeps on getting you and you have no way out to take a breather. You feel like no one can understand your situation because they are not the one who are facing this problem.
In the other hand, it is true that no one is facing the same problem as you. Unless this house turns into mental health institute.
Sometimes it is good to sit down and close your eyes by NOT thinking any other things. It is good for your brain to feel the relaxation mode.
It is not even meditation you need to do because you will bound to fail it.
All you need is to sit on the couch, close your eyes and get your body rested comfortably.
If you happen to fall asleep, so be it. That is the real purpose! Sleep comfortable with no tension in mind. It is ideal if the place is very quiet. Best to recuperate your mind because there is too much tension that caused you having lots of tension and anxiety.
Work is stress, but do not let it control you because this is very unhealthy for the entire family.
Having some thought in mind and wanted to earn more money?
You sit down in front of the computer and start your Google search: How to make more money in short time.
I will confirm that there are so many links that you are going bewitched by it!
Hey hey…there will be information like:”Wow, I earn $X in a week! I cannot believe it!”
“Wow, I earn $X in a week! I cannot believe it!”
“This product make me earn so well that I can work from home every day”
“Earn $1000 in a day!”
The promising that you cannot blame
Yeah yeah… all these promising stuff is just going to start leeching you sooner or later. Good or bad, you pick your own choice.
You have no idea how it is going to work, you find the course is affordable that you quickly jump into it and realised that you have to keep on paying until you stop or rather pay for a year.
SO much of tactic that you can spend before you can start earning! Right right, there are people will start telling you… if you do not invest in yourself, will you learn?
You got so messed up because you thought you can earn but realising that all these are ‘fake’ business they wanted it from you!
There are no promises also, so whether you can make it or not, that is another story to say.
Truthfully speaking, there are people really earn from their blog and selling of stuff. Not because they have unique things to sell, but they enter the market where everyone is looking at it.
You cannot blame internet marketing gurus who say they can help you! Only if you know what to sell in the first place. Best is you bring in people to join the course and then there are incentives! Wow.. what a deal! Why not? Psst… check your ROI (Return on investment), okay?
Hard work will pay off
Everything will work if you are diligent.
I am not saying that ALL of them will never work. but you just need to spend a time to make it work.
Nothing is impossible in this world.
But do not get blind by the get rich fast or earn $XXXX in a day type of sentences.
Wake up wake up
Other than internet marketing and MLM type of special advertising… There is another ‘get rich fast’ that will definitely lure people in.
It is investing in stock or forex.
C’mom, if you do not know any shit about that, I suggest you stay out or go find a proper website with better people who are willing to guide you!
DO not jump in because you want to get rich fast.
If you really think you can do wonders from $1000 to $1,000,000 in short notice? Dream on and hug your beer to sleep.
While investing is fun if you are really a chart person, do not get blind by some guru who says their method really works.
Yes yes, they are all out to earn MORE money, the more the merrier and I did not say they are lousy. Who will not want money when they need lesson badly?
At least find someone who is reliable with good reviews.
Do not spend money on robot if you know nuts. Chances of losing all your money are very high. Unless the robot is proven with records.
And please, for god sake, do not blame on those mentors who cause you to lose money. They too will lose money in the market, they are not god that will earn a profit every day. Someone have to lose.
Find the right mentor
If you are able to find a mentor who willing to teach you, at no cost… WOW! Congrats!
I am one of those who received that no cost lesson! I had lost a lot in market and paid to one ‘guru’ mentor because I am hunger for getting rich.
If you do not believe me after saying so much, by all means and try it.
That is the kind of experience not many want to go through it, but I will assure you to wake up your idea after you been to the dump shit.
I am not selling anything to you even though I wish to. But this is just a kind reminder that you should not be blind, okay?
Move away from people who often give you negativity in life and career.
They are nothing but a group of people who love to see someone drop to the world of shit, suffering and admit that they are right and wise. That way will make them happier.
Even though some of them are your family or close friend, always maintain yourself to stand firm because no one should violate your mind.
Negativity creates a mess
It is sad and disappointing when you realised that your family member often gives you negative element.
The worst is when the parent did not encourage their children well enough.
When kids are doing badly in sport or education, as a parent point of view, it is important to encourage them rather than passing them remarks like:
“I knew you cannot do it.”
“Why try so hard to suffer?”
“You shouldn’t be spending too much on gaming or watching TV!”
“You are simply useless!”
“You are totally wasting my time and energy to get you study well”
“You are making my money gone down to drain!”
How many of you as a parent said that before? There can be worst, of course.
Do you think by pouring such kind of sentences to kids are healthy for them?
You should be glad that if you child is strong minded and will not think of any other thing.
Let this shall not be another case where the child thought of ending their lives.
Instead, you as a kid, should try and find someone to talk with.
Any problem can be solved.
Choosing the shortcut is not the way to answer it.
Please remember, while you get away from this, what about the parents? And the parents, it is very important for you to take a second look at your kids. No one should come under that kind of stress.
Stop the negativity and encourage
That is how bad the negativity will cause if all of the people here does not know when to stop it!
It only makes everyone tired because it is not relevant at all.
Why does some people success?
It is all because they are very focus, having a strong will and also, having a group of family and friend who keep on encouraging each other.
Encouraging is very important.
Without that, it is as good as an egg without any yolk in it. Meaningless, right?
Encourage your family and friend instead of pouring cold water or negativity to others.
Rather have more support than having people walk away from you.
This is your choice, pick it yourself.
No one wants to live unhappily.
No one will bother how much you have hatred on the party.
They will not know why you have hatred, but all I can say is you are just wasting your time and effort whom the other party have no time for you.
Get up with positive attitude and share with all the others!
So what if you have vast experience.
People will still look at you as if you do not have the ability and like to talk you down like you just started out the day before.
Not showing out does not mean you are stupid or totally inexperienced.
It meant that you are absorbing everything you see, feel and touch of what had just happened before.
Just little by little will form a huge mountain.
No one will know how much experience you had before if you do not want to show.
There is no wrong doing that because you are just simply cannot bother who wanted to stand above you.
While people may think they are trying to teach you with a valid reason, but they have no idea that they are talking down to you.
It makes you like a pure fool person who does not know what is going on.
It is hurting, definitely. And it is highly irritating and restless!
Why do people love to do that?
It is not because they want to teach or think you require a lot of training. It is just that they want to be on top of the world.
Showing that they are the person others should approach to them.
They are the type who want to be a leader.
Do you feel like having a head on with this people?
It totally wastes your damn time fixing those when you know you can deal with more important things.
You do not gain anything from that at all. It only causes you more emotionally stress and tired out of everything because it always begins a conversation and then into a big argument,
NO one is right or wrong.
It is just the individual character that reacts this way.
It is important to work the way you think is right.
While advises are good to listen, it does not means you must follow them, even though it may cause some problem in future.
It is not that you do not care.
It only means you are standing firm on your belief.
Do not try to betray yourself just to follow suit because not everyone hand is strong enough to hold when you drop down.