Everyone deserve an opportunity

Most of us love to look for an opportunity to give ourselves a better life. We ask around friends who might give us that, but they often rejected by saying things like” Nah.. you cannot do this or do that” “You do not have the experience to do that”.

It is tiring to hear that because they also do not have the experience from the start.

Everyone need to practise and learn because they have no prior experience in working life as there are a lot of things that cannot be taught in the school.

If no one is willing to give you an opportunity, there will be no one working in the certain sector.

I always believe in learning through experience. Do you?

 

You are looking for work and most of your friend rejected helping you because they wanted to be better than you in many folds although they may not know it by themselves. Because those benefits are just too overwhelming and by their action, they prefer to keep it for themselves.

If a person is willing to share, they will do a recommendation few months after in the workplace. If not, please do not waste your time because your friend will be walking away from you, or rather, it is fated that you cannot work in that industry.

Some people love to stand high and feel on top of the world because they like it a lot. But they guard themselves away by recommending friends in. Although there is no obligation to help, but a person nature can be seen clearly.

 

Do not pin high hope because it hurts badly.

 

When people are not willing to give you an opportunity, it does not means that you should the same thing back to others. Why follow others and betray your kindness in heart. What comes around, goes around.

They may be up there looking down on you, but there will be a day they look up upon you.

The more you help, the better you are.

Things do not change immediately but it takes times.

Everything is about patience and discipline. Good things will accumulate and it will slowly give you tonnes of good opportunity in future.

It will take a while to understand this knowledge when you are not really that clear. By having your mind at ease, you will find an answer to what had happened to you before.

Everyone deserve an opportunity unless they decided to give up on themselves.

 

Why keeping mind empty is better

When things are not getting your way, you love to make a fuss that things are JUST not going your way.

How much you tried, the result will not appear and you started to question yourself with a lot of why in your mind.

That results in you to turn a little crazy because you started talking to yourself and keep on blaming and hitting yourself when things are just not right.

This type of psychology burden is not abnormal at all. Because we cannot control our mind well enough to let it control us.

In the other word, this is call stress.

 

We started imagining things that did not happen at all and start assuming this and that.

Family members started having a fear of you because you are not in your usual you.

The stress keeps on getting you and you have no way out to take a breather. You feel like no one can understand your situation because they are not the one who are facing this problem.

In the other hand, it is true that no one is facing the same problem as you. Unless this house turns into mental health institute.

Sometimes it is good to sit down and close your eyes by NOT thinking any other things. It is good for your brain to feel the relaxation mode.

 

It is not even meditation you need to do because you will bound to fail it.

All you need is to sit on the couch,  close your eyes and get your body rested comfortably.

If you happen to fall asleep, so be it. That is the real purpose! Sleep comfortable with no tension in mind. It is ideal if the place is very quiet. Best to recuperate your mind because there is too much tension that caused you having lots of tension and anxiety.

Work is stress, but do not let it control you because this is very unhealthy for the entire family.

Peace!